Your love sufferings are, on the one hand, drug withdrawal, on the other, stupidity and lust for power. You probably don't know that everything is beauty and everything is love. Pride makes you pray to idols.
In fact, you can do everything the same way as you did, but only a little more relaxed and without unnecessary heartache. You strain, ... you are tormented by vanity, greed, fear, doubt, lust for power and lust. You made up all your problems and you cry about them.
Wounds of the soul become insensitive to pain and joy, which in General reduces the threshold of human sensitivity, making it vulnerable to Vice. Be wary of causing severe Heartbreak to your loved ones and especially children.
The sufferings of a rejected lover are tantamount to drug withdrawal, and should not be feared or surprised. If you do not sabotage the suffering and do not eat them with sedatives, 1-2 months of torment and the body will be freed from dependence. The main thing is not to look for easy ways and not to be afraid.
Put something in your pocket that isn't there. To divide a skin of not killed bear. Include the illusion of the future in your self-esteem… All this is called complacency and a sure way to find yourself sad.
Your job is to do what you have to do. I forbid you to suffer that you don't have time for something. Your desire for power over time is pride. God's ways are mysterious. Everything is done as it should and when it should.
Do what you can do, even if there are many things that are better but not available. You should choose the best available. To suffer for something that is not there is foolishness, ignorance, and pride.
Humility is the ability to wait for a tree to grow without suffering too much. We are in too much of a hurry to carry out our plans, it seems to us a tragedy when they are slowed down. As children, we resentfully throw what does not go as we want. Try not to give up the dream because the tree did not grow overnight, wait a couple of years.
Treat events now as memories of the past, this will allow you to reduce the energy of negative emotions such as fear, suffering, anger, irritation, unhappiness, pain... Look at your present sufferings from the height of the future.
When cutting proceed from the available material. The point is, if you're planning a business or something, use what you have. Everything you need is at your fingertips. Suffering for what is not is characteristic of a man who is not intelligent.