Resentment and self-pity provoke pride in a person. Feeling injustice in their address, people begin to build their self-esteem, feel like a hero, fighting with the whole world. Having fallen into dependence on self-pity and heroic joy, a person begins to subconsciously provoke insults and trouble in his address.
If you are cold and disrespectful to a proud man, you will greatly offend him. From resentment, a weak and proud person will avoid you. The strong will attack. The strongest will remain polite and persistent.
It is desirable to respond to insults and insults in silence, however, you should take offense and not forgive the offender until he atones for his guilt. Snapping, making excuses, or, even more so, admitting their guilt is impractical.
The manipulator insults and provokes people by demanding their love. Love me-requires a manipulator, obey me, do what I tell you, and I will not hit you very hard… I will be kind to you if you love me. The problem is that the proud always lack love. A bottomless hunger for power, pleasure, and love overwhelms the souls of these people.
Punctuality and accuracy is respect for time and the boundaries of things. All forms (processes) the material world is limited by time. When one process gets on top of another process - this is disrespect, aggression, rudeness... on the other hand, the less, the more, so the process that makes a bust, kills itself.