Resignation is the ability to separate the wheat from the chaff, honey from tar and soup from flies. Otherwise, you will remain without soup, honey and bread.
Resignation both unites and disunites. By mixing honey and tar, you will ruin the honey but resignation will help you separate them one from another and benefit from each of them, taken separately. Resignation is a soup and flies. The soup and the flies apart.
Resignation is when you take flies from your soup without too much suffering and keep eating it. Arrogance is when you are choking on your soup with flies but keep eating it. Alternatively, you refuse it and die of hunger.
In «Lolita» Nabokov managed to show as how beautiful and attractive a dirty and self-destructive vice can be. Beauty of a vice is a beauty of pain and suffering. The spider web is amazing, and suffering of a fly in it is terrible.
Your mistake is that you do not know what is right and good often beat, so driving away from the delicacy of flies. Flies are terribly afraid of pain, besides flies do not care, Goodies in front of them or manure.
True love inspires the pursuit of perfection and creativity. Fake love is a vampire that consumes time and energy. True love energizes a person, and false love is like sticky tape for flies.
In the evening plan tomorrow, and in the morning work. It is not necessary to work in the evening and in the morning dream, like a fly in my dreams. Dream better on night.
Wisdom, having conquered pride, finds love and begins to learn from everyone. Wisdom is learning from five girls and an older man, the book and the ant, the dog and maggots. Wisdom loves everything. And everything that exists, he believes it is useful in a given situation. But wisdom does not take everything. Wisdom separates the soup from the flies. If wisdom need flies, she takes of the flies. If wisdom needs soup, she takes soup.
In a soup with flies we will divide flies and soup. In a barrel of honey and tar we will divide them. Mining gold, we will get gold, copper, sand, gravel, iron ore, precious stones and many other useful things. In this world there is nothing useless, everything will go to work.
Soup with flies is a paradox of existence. They cannot be separated. If you remove the flies, the soup disappears. You can't choose soup without flies, because then it will disappear. You can't even separate them. But and together use their not very want.
If you try to understand the essence of what does not concern you, you will get entangled in paradoxes. All entities are one, like soup and flies. Question " Why soup flies?"will drive you crazy.
You don't have to think positively or negatively, you just have to separate the flies from the soup. There is no need to suffer because of flies, and there is no point in happily choking on them.
A man has flies in his head. The other person is like an Apple with a worm in it. The buzzing of thoughts and the headache are terrible. How to save the unfortunate?
A person immersed in a nightmare is more likely to Wake up than someone who is mired in sweet fantasies. The one who is stuck like a fly in Paradise, does not want to Wake up. Wrapped in a warm cocoon of spider fly happily expects to be eaten.