When a man goes headlong into his problems, a woman goes mad with pain from loneliness and puts him before a choice: problems or her. A man in love should say that all problems are nonsense, and turn his attention to the woman.
Pofigizm this there is courage. You know that everything is nonsense, and therefore you are not afraid of your fears. Fears need not be afraid, and to work with them, the problems require solutions, not desastrado.
Everything is beauty, but only love knows about it. Love is the ability to spend a huge amount of time on what it considers beautiful, and all other people – some unnecessary nonsense. The lover sees the universe in a grain of sand.
And Paradise has up and hell people came up with. A person generally has a very rich imagination, he is always imagining all sorts of nonsense. It is boring for a person to live in the real world, so he is delusional.