Proud people don't know how to love. Their love is pride, that is, lust and lust for pleasure. These people pop their eyes and say in surprise, we live for love, love is the most important thing... The meaning of life is love, they say... we are ready to do only what brings us pleasure. After receiving an overdose of pleasure, the proud fall into a chronic drug withdrawal and fall into hell. The suffering of the proud is monstrous.
The forbidden fruit is sweet, for it is the source of a hitherto unknown pleasure. Basically, it's just a drug. You'll get used to it first, then you'll break down, and then you'll die of an overdose in terrible agony.
The person whose Self (Ego) dependent on pleasure, very vulnerable to suicide. The loss or depletion of sources of pleasure sharply reduces his self-esteem, causing severe pain, against which the person loses interest in life.
Your love sufferings are, on the one hand, drug withdrawal, on the other, stupidity and lust for power. You probably don't know that everything is beauty and everything is love. Pride makes you pray to idols.
Beautiful people are hungry for power and have a chronic fear of not having enough power. Beautiful women are hard to love, they never get enough attention, they want to attract attention... and this, of course, turns them into nervous and love-dependent drug addicts.
A society dependent on love is essentially a society of drug addicts. "I am good," the man says to himself, and a wave of self-satisfaction spreads through his body. The more of this goodness, the more fun it is. Too much pleasure reduces the sensitivity of the brain and the person plunges into depression (in fact, drug withdrawal).
Self-pity can be seen as a drug breakdown, due to lack of external love. They don’t love me, a person dependent on love experiences and cries. To stabilize the situation, you need to fast and suffer steadily, waiting for the body to clear itself and be ready to love again.
A man wants to be good, and because he is good, he wants to be loved. After getting what you want, a person is very happy and gets an overdose of pleasure, which causes him to first fall into complacency, and then, as he gets used to it and decreases his sensitivity, become vile and aggressive.
Love? How stupid! Only a complete ignoramus can call pride and drug addiction love. Run, demand a dose of love can only addicts, or rather proud, greedily hungry for power. The proud man, having lost those whom he considered his slaves, howls to the point of gnashing his teeth and demands the return of his property. It hurts them, you see, the drugs were taken from them. Weak and proud, they don't have the strength to survive the break... COWARDS!
An obsessive person is an unhappy addict who wants to sublimate his drug withdrawal by attracting the attention of his drug. There are many strategies for dealing with addicts, but it's easier to ignore them good-naturedly. It is undesirable to reduce the withdrawal of an addict with small doses of a drug or other drugs. The more intense the pain, the faster it burns out, and consolations can stretch the pain indefinitely.
You can become a drug addict from many things, any limited and acute joy generates dependence. Morning half-sleep is especially dangerous. Try to get up as quickly as possible and go to wash. The more you lie in bed, watching the last sweet dreams, the more procrastination it will generate during the day.
Proud people are hungry for love and want to do good, and they want to be grateful for it. On the other hand, too much gratitude creates complacency and emotional overdose in them. Overdose is withdrawal, fear, aggression, etc.