"Drug" (addiction) is a metaphor for Cinderella, whose carriage, sooner or later, turns into a pumpkin, horses into mice, and Cinderella herself will fall into depression. Indeed, under the drug everything is fine, but without it everything is disgusting and the further, the more disgusting, and the drug itself eventually ceases to work and all that remains after it is a deep unhealed blackness of disgust.
It is especially dangerous when the wrong decision brings a good result. In this case, the person falls into drug dependence on the wrong decision and statistically turns into a lie, that is, falls into the abyss of problems.
Drugs are a scary thing. People use drugs to escape suffering, but... this leads to the fact that the suffering in the absence of drugs becomes stronger and stronger, and the painkiller is addictive and it stops working. As a result, one morning a person wakes up in hell, from which there is no escape.
Try not to feel sorry for the children sverhmery. If the child realizes that pity is the fastest source of pleasure, he will no longer be able to grow and win. Winners and strong people no regrets. Those who get hooked on the pity drug can no longer grow and win.