In fact, there is salvation from poverty and suffering. Reading rooms and libraries will save even those who have nothing but hope. Don't rush for money, work half a day to get enough for the simplest food, clothes and a bed in the hostel, and the rest of the time spend in the library and do sports. In less than three years, you will have accumulated enough strength to fulfill any desire.
When does not cease to be added, surely there will be a breakthrough. This is the essence and meaning of personal growth, daily small steps to perfection inevitably lead to the goal of accumulation of critical mass and insight.
The human brain is programmed with the information that corresponds to its goals and dreams. The DNA of thought depends on the goals. If a person wants to be an oak, he will program an acorn in himself.
Wrestling (judo, Sambo, etc.) develops self-confidence in children. Such a child is not afraid of violation of the comfort zone, do not confuse him and touches. On the contrary, coming closer, he feels confident that he is in control of the situation, everything is in his hands.
All your skills need to be trained. Especially hard to train the most basic skills. For example, I learned to look into the face of another person only at the age of 39, after two weeks of daily training. It took me a year to learn to listen without interrupting. I had to learn the most basic things. Do not be afraid. Say what I think. Listen to yourself. To act quickly. No doubt. And even the art of going to the potty demanded from me a huge effort and hundreds of workouts.
Tell the truth. Don't lie in any way. Do what you have to do. Follow the order. Suppress desires and vices. Contempt for pleasures and vices. Contempt for luxury. Contempt for flattery. Playing sports. Reading and self-education. Striving for perfection. Train your ability to believe and not be afraid. Train your ability to admire. Listen to your intuition. Serve your dream, truth, and beauty. Follow the rituals. Restraint.
The realization of your dream should begin with its knowledge. Getting to know your dream you're starting to grow slowly in her direction. Remember, they don't go to the dream, they grow slowly to the dream.
The realization of the expected means that first you have to become inside yourself what you want to be, and then the external reality will harmoniously adapt to you, as you move towards the dream. You can program yourself through books and experience.
You can drink a Cup of coffee, and you can buy 4 great books. You can go to the movies with a girl and eat popcorn (although it is doubtful that you will have enough), or you can buy the complete works Theodora Dreiser, three months to read them, be happy and wise up so that the girls themselves will start running after you, and not you for them.
A minimum of funds can do more than a maximum. When you have a lot of money, you will do a lot of unnecessary things, thus losing a huge amount of valuable time. When you don't have enough money, you only do what you need to do, and it speeds you up significantly.
Regarding "not have time", "late", "life has passed, it's getting late" you can see that informed people actively lived an average of 15 years and that was enough for anything, even it was possible to take over the world. Now people live longer, and if you have at least 2-4-8 years left, you can have time to achieve anything.