Pridefulness has many masks. One of them is that of a helper. A person of this kind is persistent in trying to help those who don't ask for it. As this person may suffer from messiah complex and want to save souls. It's a pity a person of this kind can't save his or her own soul.
When you compulsively give your partner more than he gives you, you unobtrusively cause him remorse and fear. This man doesn't want to give you all of himself. His plan is to preserve his identity and he doesn't want to be suicidal.
"Why don't you love me?» "what is it?" asks the proud man. People respond to it: "Because you understand love as power, control, rudeness, disdain and contempt for the one you love. You don't just love, you want to turn those you love into yourself by killing them. You want to be served and given your energy. You are stupid The sun that wants to burn the Earth. What does it matter to you if the earth becomes a fiery and lifeless hell like yourself? You are not satisfied with those who burn in the eternal fire Mars and mercury? Or maybe you enjoy the endless madness and storms of the atmosphere Venus? Does Neptune's cold hell attract you?
Your lust for power and control turns people away from you. Of course, you are trying to buy love and you are ready to give everything for this love, but love is not for sale and does not live in a cage. You cry about the injustice of life and the ingratitude of people, but it is not so.
The idea that there are things that a person does for others is a vile lie. Any action always brings three benefits. Benefit yourself, society, and your neighbor. Whatever a person does, it always benefits them, too. However, the society and the neighbor are also not offended. Resentment comes from misunderstanding and ignorance.
Guilt is a dangerous thing, because it not only tells you that you owe everyone something, but also whispers that everyone owes you something. Inspired by a sense of guilt, you subconsciously begin to expect something and even demand from people. Trust me, people will not appreciate your high expectations of them.
Proud people are very touchy, they try to pay and do anything to be loved... but it doesn't work. Love is not for sale. Trying to dominate, control, impose your ideals on the object of your love simply kills love. "I have done so much for them," cries the proud man, " and they have done nothing for me... They are unworthy of me. The whole world is not worthy of me. I'm so good, and the world is terrible."..
Proud people are dangerous to deal with, in the sense that they promise heaven and give hell. In the end, they squeeze you out like a lemon, throw you out on the street, call you unworthy of his love, and so on. In General, a proud man is a devil who will steal your time, and then also tell you how cruelly and viciously you deceived him.
A demon is a person who does not have his own Affairs and desires, so he is always trying to steal other people's Affairs, to realize other people's desires... like a vampire sucking someone else's love and joy.
What individuals call self-giving and love is an act of pride and the absorption of another's personality into a state of dissolution. Someone who is subjected to such aggression, it feels like a parasite virus is trying to get inside and eat you from the inside.